Here’s a mostly secular perspective on the kind of guy you want to avoid, ladies. (For the Christian view on this, click here.)
An article by Maureen Dowd published at The New York Times provides some characteristics or you could call them “flaws” to look out for if you ladies want the ideal husband. Heed this advice and you may dodge mates who would maul your happiness. Ignore it and you may find yourself in a relationship nightmare.

Following is a list of either questions to ask or characteristics to watch out for.
- Never marry a man who has no friends. This usually means that he will be incapable of the intimacy that marriage demands. If he does have friends, what are they like?
- What do your friends and family members think of him? If the man you wish to marry does not find favor with your friends and family, that is a good indication that your marital relationship will not last.
- Does he use money responsibly? Is he stingy? Most marriages that suffer do so because of money. Read the rest by clicking here.